Thursday, October 10, 2013

Should I be worried with a celebrity gossip obsessed boyfriend?

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My bf and I are together for almost two years. Great relationship, hardly ever fighting. Great plans for future. We're both in our late 20's, mature, with a job and good education. It has always bothered me for some reason, his obsession of celebrity gossip.

For some reason he just loves to know and read about celebrity gossip. I do too, when I'm bored, but never follow it especially not on a daily basis. On the other hand, its an everyday obbession with him with everything from model galleries, to dumb gossip and plastic surgeries.


Since I am a pretty petite girl, natural and simple, in great shape. I like to dress simple, classy and professional. I dont like anything fake or bright bold colors. But when I jokingly asked about how he would feel about me getting a boob job or any type of plastic surgery. He simply said that he'd support me and sees no problem with girls wanting to get plastic surgery. He said he wouldnt stop me from anything. I feel he looks at all this stuff and makes him feel as if all of this "fake" stuff is normal and a girl should always look busty and hot. I tried talking to him and all he says is that he loves me for who I am and thats is that. I dont feel like I will satisfy him in the end since he already has an image of what a girl should look like drawn in his mind. There's always going to be "those" girls he desires. I dont like how he likes "fake" girls and enjoys looking at these galleries and celebrities every single day. I am not sure if guys do this just for fun or if he is doing this because he actually enjoys it. The more and more I think about it, the more insecure I get in my mind.

Before this gets out of hand in my mind, someone please explain this.

Thanks,!



Answer
Talk to him about it and tell him how much it's bothering you. Explain how gay men usually obsess over the shallow world of celebrity, by reading magazines like Heat or Closer etc and check the websites. So it's a bit strange that he's doing this and becoming as shallow as these celebrities.

He needs to live in the real world and focus on more important things. Maybe his female colleagues at work talk about it all the time, so he does it a lot as a result.

He may or may not want to change, but you have to bring it up before it drives you apart.

I hope he tries to change, but if he doesn't then you may have to reconsider dating him, good luck.

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Need:
a curling iron, either a 1/2inch iron or a full inch iron, and bobby pins

Take 2-4 inch pieces of your hair, spray heat protector on that piece and wrap around the iron

Hold for 10-15 seconds

Unwind from iron and twist the hair in into a circle while still hot and pin to head

Do entire head like that. Then do your makeup or something.

Once your hair has cooled take the pins out and carefully brush curls in to the desired style. Brush with fingers first, then very, very,carefully use a paddle brush to blend the curls in to each other. You are going to want to brush back, to get the Selena Gomez look you want.

It may take you a few times to get it down just right for your hair type.

Good Luck




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