Monday, October 21, 2013

How to handle reputation problem?

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Anne


Long story...I'll be choppy to make it go fast. Son's school looking for place for grad dance (he's 13). Thought the found good restaurant/we are encouraged to go check it out. I go, friendly to owners ask details, they start to get salesy on me. I am not the one to handle details and tell them so. Our party is 60 ppl they want at least 160 to 200 to rent that room. I was personable, compliment them on establishment, we shake hands, I leave. School principal calls me in five days later, tells me I messed up entire event, harassed owner, told him he had drunkards in his bar that would bother our kids, etc. and they wanted nothing to do with our school or event. I never said any of this at all. She went on to call to try to make up with owner, he rants and raves about me, three teachers go with her to make amends for things I never said or did. I find out from a different source that has nothing to do with the school that he was offered large wedding party so he dumped our 60 person group and blamed it on me, saying I was rude and I wasn't...he used me as escape clause. Principal does not know this...threatens me that all parents will be furious with me and hate me for being rude to the guy (she believes him). Says she and the group of teachers will keep their mouths shut for my sake and if word gets out about me being rude (wasn't...remember, owner lied to get bigger party and blame on me) it would be my fault. She lectures me on my behavior and how I need to change my life etc when I was nothing but friendly and professional to these owners when I was there. I have been involved in school since 1998 and my son is about to graduate. I have many friends there (teachers I have known forever). One of the culprit women in group has biggest mouth in school and she will not keep it quiet. What do I do to defend myself and my reputation? This is all lies. Looked up restaurant reviews for this owner and people have posted what he is really like...horrible person. My son leaves in a few months but in the meantime I have to spend large amounts of time with these people at end of year events and then after graduation, see them in town. I was advised to go above principal's head and report for how she treated me. But sometimes you can look like you are complaining or explaining so much, that you look guilty instead. How do I deal with these four jerky women who believe lies about me and have the potential to make the rest of the school hate me forever? Do I tell them source's story about choosing larger banquet and dumping ours? Not sure what else to do. I AM SO MAD. This is stupid, I know. Too long a story to fully explain.


Answer
You ignore it!!

" Rumors are just Rumors". Everyone is entitled to an opinion, nothing can change the way a person thinks or acts.

You could press charges against them for harassment, trying to ruin your reputation. However! A star is a star. They're a public speaker, and a celebrity. If this is that kind of reputation! People put them self out there, so.. there fore you will be known for what you set yourself out to be.

So.. the best thing to do is ignore it, be kind. When others hate on you, spread gossip just take it as " celebrity gossip', it not being real. The only person who would know the truth are your closets friends, yourself.

You see even the paparazzi aren't that bad. They don't spread serious malicious gossip to the press, just remember! If you're a innocent person, and a good person. " What goes around comes around". If you do harmful, nasty things to an innocent person. Be prepared for others to do something nasty to you.

You should always treat others with respect. The paparazzi don't crack awful, nasty remarks. They only do it to people who act stupid, do stupid things. Like Brittney spears. Now.. if Brittney didn't act crazy, did stupid things. And kept cool, not reacted to her problems. I suppose the Paparazzi wouldn't be making fun of her. The reason they were making fun of her is because.. she lost self control, was making a fool out of herself.

Instead of learning from her mistake, trying to fix it. She ruined her own reputation due to her stupidity. She lost fans, people still care about her. She's still a good person but made stupid choices in the past. She ruined her own reputation. But when you go out.. trying to destroy someones reputation, they're good people. Be prepared to be consider a "HATER", be known as some psycho who's Nasty, talking garbage out of the mouth!

So.. let them run there mouth, be nasty. The only person that is making them self look bad is them self. Let them self destruct them self! Don't go crazy, self destruct. that's what they want you to do!

Celebrity Quiz! Do you know celebrities?




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here are a lot of questions about celebrities. i put a lot so most people will be able to get a few. the questions are in crossword puzzle clues format. the person who answers the most correctly wins best answer! and don't answer if all you have to say is that it is pointless, it is just a game! have fun!

1 Disturbia actor Shia
2 What Happens In Vegas actress Bell
3 singer Beyonce
4 No Country For Old Men actor Josh
5 The Sopranos actress Jamie-Lynn
6 Ice Princess actress Cusack
7 John Tucker Must Die actress McCarthy
8 actress Minnillo, was Miss Teen USA 1998
9 daughter of Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck
10 House M.D. actress Lisa
11 "___ the plumber"
12 90210 actress Stroup
13 singer Judd
14 Victoria and David
15 Ugly Betty actress Newton
16 Jim Carrey movie Me, Myself, and ___
17 What I Like About You actress Garth
18 Desperate Housewives actress Nicolette
19 Because I Said So actress Piper
20 Grant or Jackman
21 Stuart Little actor Hugh
22 Character Dr. Gregory ___
23 Full House actress Jodie
24 Crossroads actress Manning
25 The Notebook actor Ryan
26 Premonition actress Bullock
27 Elektra actress Jennifer
28 Lindsay Lohan's girlfriend Sam
29 I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry actor James
30 House M.D. actress Jennifer
31 The Phantom of the Opera actress Emmy
32 the bad octopus in The Little Mermaid
33 Full House actor John
34 Kill Bill actress Uma
35 Anywhere But Here actress Susan
36 Beyonce's actress sister
37 Gaston, Romeo in Love Story music video
38 daughter of Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise
39 Brody from The Hills
40 TV host Chelsea
41 Jamie-Lynn Spears' daughter
42 American Eagle brand
43 actress Leachman on DWTS
44 Ugly Betty actress Rebecca
45 One Tree Hill actress Bush
46 Moonlight and Mistletoe actress Cameron-Bure
47 Kath and Kim actress Selma
48 actress and princess Olivia
49 Michael or Diane
50 According to Jim actress Kimberly Williams-___
51 Of Mice and Men actor Malkovich
52 The Office actor Steve
53 singer Furtado
54 The Holiday actress K

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